You will find that approaching your partner about swinging is something that can be pretty hard to do. You will want them to be open to the suggestion but not do it just for you. A partner that only swings for the benefit of their partner will oftentimes feel resentful and angry with them for making them do it. Be sure that you and your partner agree that it is something that you want to do together.

Mention It

It is a good idea to simply mention the idea of swinging to them and then go from there. This is something that can be difficult for you to do because you don’t know how exactly they are going to respond to it. Once you have mentioned it you can see what they say and then go from there. If they do not seem interested, then it is best not to push the subject too hard on them.

Start Slow

If your partner agrees to go swinging then you should always try to start slow. This is something that is going to end up being an easy thing to do as long as you are honest. Tell the other swingers that you are both new and that you need to take your time. They will more often than not be very kind and allow you and your partner to take all the time that you need.

Boundaries

It is a good idea to have boundaries as well as a safe word that you can use with each other. This safe word can mean that one of you needs to leave immediately.